I recently spent a week with my husband doing little but looking at this view of the Palo Duro Canyon from our rented patio, stargazing from the outdoor hot tub, and relaxing. We unplugged completely. No news. No work. No social media. No other people.
It was heaven, and I didn’t have a severe migraine attack the entire time we were there.
The low-level pain, nausea, and vertigo of the ongoing disease are almost always present, but that’s where they stayed. At low levels, in the background. No major attacks. No big flares. It was the most peace I’ve had in months.
When we came back, I immediately had to do what we all have to do when we get back from vacation: I had to make up for being away. My first day back at work was a “regular” Monday. I clocked 13 hours, made my family three meals (plus snacks), cleaned here and there, served as partial entertainment for a four-year-old boy, and kept my ears tuned to the TV and social media for updates on Harvey, my city, our (flooding) surrounding areas, and our friends (many of whom were evacuating.)
By 1 p.m., my pain level and other symptoms had increased with a vengeance.
While I expected this, it still got me thinking. What can I do to reclaim a little of that Palo-Duro peace for myself during the regular week? How can I take care of myself, and my health, like I did over the course of those blessed and restful days?
I recently read a post from another writer talking about reclaiming Wellness Wednesday as a day for health. She said she was going to spend each Wednesday, taking the entire day off and nurturing her body and her mind. This idea intrigues me.
I’m not sure I’m capable of making that kind of commitment right now, as I have so many other commitments already. But I’d like to try. At the very least, it will remind me that I need to prioritize myself and my health just as much as I prioritize everything else. We women, especially those of us who are moms with chronic illness, tend to need that reminder.
What about you? Do you do anything on a regular basis to prioritize your well-being and your health? What is it?